Stop trying to write your book alone (Great books are written together)

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I still remember the day I walked into a Life Story Writing course at my local community centre.

I wasn’t thinking about building a writing career. I wasn’t thinking about publishing books. I simply wanted to write my stories, quietly, without pressure, without expectation. For six months, I showed up and poured my heart onto the page.

But something unexpected happened when the course ended.

A small group of us didn’t want to stop. So we decided to keep meeting. Once a month, at my home, we would gather around with our notebooks and read our stories aloud. There was no agenda, no grand ambition, just a group of women listening, sharing, and encouraging each other to keep going.

What started as a simple extension of a course slowly became something much deeper.

For the next 15 years, we didn’t just support each other’s writing. We supported each other through life. Through changes, challenges, and quiet moments when writing felt too hard or too insignificant to continue.

And yet, we kept showing up.

Looking back now, I realise something I didn’t understand then. It wasn’t just the writing that kept me going. It was the fact that I was no longer doing it alone.

What a writing circle can actually do for you.

A decade later, I found myself in another writing group.

This time, it was different.

There were five of us, all working on novels, all serious about finishing what we had started. We called ourselves Gutsy Gals—partly as a joke, partly because we needed the reminder.

Every time we met, something powerful happened.

One person would bring a problem. A messy chapter. A character that wouldn’t behave. A plot that refused to move forward. And within minutes, five brains would start working on it. Ideas would bounce around. Perspectives would shift. Solutions would appear where there was only frustration before.

It felt like magic. But it wasn’t magic. It was collaboration.

Their encouragement carried me through the days I wanted to quit. Their feedback made my writing sharper. Their belief in me stayed steady, even when mine wavered.

And slowly, something changed.

I stopped seeing myself as someone “trying to write a book.” I became someone who was actually writing one. That group helped me self-publish my first book. They made sure that I remain accountable. They made sure I kept going when the going got tough.

The lie most writers believe.

Most writers don’t quit because they lack talent.

They quit because they believe they should be able to do this on their own.

Somewhere along the way, we’ve romanticised the idea of the “solo writer.” Sitting alone, waiting for inspiration, battling through self-doubt, emerging with a finished manuscript as if it were an act of pure will.

It sounds noble.

It’s also the reason most books never get written.

Because writing alone doesn’t just mean you’re working in silence. It means you’re left alone with your thoughts. And that’s where things start to unravel.

A simple doubt turns into a full-blown crisis. A missed writing day becomes a week. A rough chapter convinces you the whole idea is flawed.

Fear grows louder. Perfectionism tightens its grip. Procrastination starts to feel justified. And without anyone to interrupt that spiral, it becomes very easy to stop.Not dramatically. Not with a big decision. But quietly… one day at a time.

That’s why so many people “want to write a book” for years, but they never do. It is not because they don’t want enough. It is because they’re trying to carry something heavy… completely alone.

What changes when you don’t do it alone.

The moment you stop writing in isolation, everything begins to shift.

Not because writing suddenly becomes easy. But because it stops becoming lonely.

One of my students came back for a second cohort after joining the first one. She had written about half of her book, but then life got busy. The manuscript sat untouched for months, and the longer she stayed away from it, the harder it became to return.

So she started attending the weekly sessions again.

Something interesting happened. As she watched other writers making progress, sharing their wins, and overcoming their own obstacles, her enthusiasm for her book began to return. She opened her manuscript and wrote a couple of pages. Then another chapter. Then another.

Today, she has completed almost two-thirds of her book. She didn’t found more time. But because she was surrounded by people who kept showing up, and in doing so, helped her keep showing up too. The group’s accountability, encouragement, and momentum pulled her back into the work when she couldn’t do it alone.

When you’re alone, every decision feels heavier than it should. You question your ideas. You rewrite the same paragraph ten times. You stop when it gets uncomfortable because there’s no one there to remind you to keep going.

But in a writing circle, the weight is shared.

You don’t sit with your doubts for too long. You say them out loud, and someone helps you see them differently. You don’t disappear for weeks. Someone notices and pulls you back. You don’t abandon a good idea too early. You stay with it long enough to make it work.

Accountability keeps you moving. Feedback sharpens your thinking. Support steadies you when your confidence dips. And slowly, almost without noticing, your relationship with writing changes.

You stop waiting to “feel ready.” You start showing up, even on the messy days. You trust the process, because you’re not navigating it blind anymore.

You’re no longer trying to push a book into existence. You’re building it, step by step, with people who are walking the same path.

From writing alone to writing with an Author Circle

At some point, I stopped seeing writing as a solitary act. I had experienced how much further, faster, and deeper writing could go when done with others.

Every breakthrough I’ve had as a writer has been shaped by a circle.

A space where I could bring half-formed ideas without fear. A place where I didn’t have to pretend everything was perfect. A group that reminded me to keep going when stopping felt easier. That’s what changed everything for me.

And that’s exactly why I created Author Circle.

Not as another course. Not as a place to collect more information. But a space where writers come together to actually finish what they start.

Because the truth is simple. You don’t need more ideas. You don’t need more time.
You don’t need to wait until you feel ready.

You need the right environment. One that gives you clarity when you feel stuck. Structure when things feel overwhelming. And support when you’re tempted to give up.

Ready to write your book with the right support?

Starting in June, I’ll be running a brand-new four-week cohort exclusively for paid subscribers where we will work together to turn your Substack publication into an authority-building book.

I’m calling it ‘Substack To Book Project.’ Over the next four weeks, I’ll help you:

• identify the central idea running through your newsletter

• shape it into a clear book concept

• a practical roadmap for extracting from your current content.

The goal is not to produce a 300-page masterpiece. The goal is to create a strategic book that establishes your authority, attracts the right readers, and gives your work a clear centre of gravity.

By the end of the project, you will have:

• A validated book idea based on your existing Substack content

• A book draft, a book cover, and publishing know-how

• A focused content strategy for growing your Substack

• A clear offer to monetise your Substack that aligns with your expertise

• Accountability, feedback, and support from fellow writers on the same journey

Most Substack writers don’t need more content ideas.

If you’ve been publishing consistently but still feel scattered, unclear about your positioning, or unsure how your newsletter connects to a larger vision, this cohort is for you.

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That’s less than the cost of a single book, and it gives you access to the June cohort where I’ll help you turn your Substack into an authority-building book.

Dates: 4, 8, 18, and 25 June 2026 (5, 9, 19, and 26 June for Australia and New Zealand)

Time: 5:00 PM PDT / 8:00 PM EDT

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Let’s turn your Substack into a book that builds authority, grows your audience, and creates new opportunities for your business.

As always, thanks for reading.